I believe I can spot the elephant in the room.
‘I wonder why it’s not me’.
- It is not he is the most gifted man that wins the day – it is he who is awfully LIKEABLE as well as CHARASMATIC that wins people over
- Certainly in the world of employment this runs true
If your experience is truly as you say it is, then that’s not the problem. But that’s only one part of the game. The other part is the very human part of:
- Magnetism and the like
Have someone review you professionally AND personally
See what that coughs up for you.