I flicked through the answers (which are great!); and I’d like to offer a much more practical view of this:
It has to do with
- What you say?
Is it obvious that you are trying to hit on them?
- Hey babe?
- ‘So I wanted to…’ (She leaves)
Maybe you say something weird as an opener:
- I really like your bag
- You have nice feet
Maybe you just mumble something incoherently
- Yes that never helps
However. I suspect it’s not the primary reason
- How you look?
Are you a short guy approaching tall women?
- Always difficult
Do you wear some outrageous clothes?
- You need balls for this!
Maybe you are a ‘nerd’ approaching a ‘model’
- More balls and game required!
This could in part have a role to play…
- How you say it?
Do you sound nervous?
- Like a deer caught in the headlights?
Do you stumble, mumble and jabber?
- Like someone rushing in from the freezing cold?
Do you stride over with confidence like it’s perfectly natural you are there?
- Or look like an imposter?
This counts for a lot…
Review your actions against these and try and change them and see what results you get.
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